Martha
Finding oneself in the other (Fonagy, 1999)
Abstract
This article developed from the therapeutic case study that I wrote for NZAP membership in 2006. It follows my work with Martha, an adult woman, over the course of four years of individual therapy. Issues of loss and bereavement permeated the therapy, most obviously for the client but also for me. I struggled with times when the client's life experience, as spoken in session, was very close to my own; so close that I felt my ability to remain separate and able to think was in danger of being compromised. It seems to me these are issues that all of us must struggle with at times, and merit further discussion.